Hey Diary,
As you know I am very lazy in writing and reading stuffs, but you also know that I have will to improve, so I am trying to work on these stuffs.
What I am trying to write today is about “Friends”…
We say in India that Dosti hi aisa rista hai jo aap khud se banate ho….Its very true I guess!!!
I have always been thinking that to be good friends, we should have same opinion. That’s true to some extent, but not fully though.
There is another thought of school in this matter.
And my friend, Guru, Mentor named Deepesh taught me that.
“To be good friends with some peoples, some time we need to have same differences as well.”
I know this is not very clear statement in itself, so let explain myself. What this means is that if some how you are feeling that things are not working the way you want to be or what you have thought of, even though you are the same person, so means something needs to be changed.
So start identifying the problems or concerns or anything which both of you don’t like and share the same opinion for that. This way you and your friend will at least have a common ground which will help you to make your friendship more mature. But this is not always the right approach, one need to identify the scenario where this can be effectively implemented.
This was actually my learning of the day.
Thanks a lot Arun Joshi and Deepesh san for the nice coffee in “Star Bucks”,and Thanks Star Bucks for the Tall Cappuccino J.
16th April 16, 2008 ; 12:47AM
-Ambuj
1 comment:
Hey, it's really great to see you writing something...and good to know that u are waking up early in morning...what a sudden drastic change...
u know dosti is really wonderful...During my four year be degree course the most valuable thing I have earned is not my degree but one friend for lifetime...up to amazement we don't have anything in common...we never agree on any topic...During those four years we always fought with each other...there were a number of weeks when we didn't talk, even avoided to face each other some times only because of our disagreements...but we were so emotionally attached that I didn't but he cried many times...during our departure he wrote all bad thing about me in my diary...Still whenever I get time I read all four pages written by him...though he's cursed my in those four pages yet when ever I read I feel a unique happiness inside...
friendship can never be give and take..if some one treats us well we reciprocate same and it evolves in good terms...but if some thing bad happens or even a slightest misunderstanding can ruin such frnship...
True frns are those whose frinshp does not depend on their circumstantial behavior... they may be holding opposite corners on any opinion...may be seemed as real rivals on any discussion but this has no impact on their frnship...they are frns and they will remain so, regardless of their differences...
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